Day 7

Day 7:  Last night was a bit rougher for Z.  He cried a very sad cry in his mama's arms once the lights were out and it was time to go to sleep.   A bit more overt grieving it appears.  Even after falling asleep, he was rather restless much of the night. 

 

We awoke to a very smoggy day, much like yesterday.  Today we had a bit of a breather while awaiting the completion of government paperwork.   After a traditional Chinese buffet breakfast, our guide took us to see the famous Longmen Grottoes of Luoyang.  The site was amazing.   In the cliff sides along the Yi River beginning in the year 496AD during the Northern Wei and Tang Dynasties, thousands of grottoes and caves were dug out and figures, primarily Buddha's, were carved within.   The largest Buddha carving, see photo, is approximately 56' tall.  It was all very impressive.  Y and Z had a great time tagging along and keeping us busy.  After getting back to the hotel, Z and his Mama worked on mastering the concept of solving jigsaw puzzles, which he really enjoyed. We are also happy to report that Z started playing in earnest with his new little sister.   He really is a kind and friendly little boy.

 

Note to potential visitors to this hotel:  we've discovered an interesting service offered each evening, apparently only to the men in the hotel.  Each night our room gets a phone call.   If C answers the phone, a body massage is offered by a female voice.  If either woman in our party answers, the caller hangs up immediately.   Hmmm.

Day 6

Day 6: Today began with an excellent hotel buffet breakfast in Zhengzhou.  We met Celine at 9:00 for the two-hour drive to Luoyang.   The first 45 minutes went by quickly as we got out of town and onto the expressway.  Then came road construction and we were directed off the highway.   It's impossible to describe the harrowing adventure we then began as we traveled for the next three hours on small, sometimes dirt roads, in an attempt to bypass the detour and return to the expressway.   We ran into dead ends, stopped to ask directions many times, and braved the perils of driving on roads with all manner of vehicles that essentially follow no observable traffic laws.   If we had to list the 10 times in our lives that we have been closest to death on a highway, I'm sure 9, if not 10, of them occurred on this one trip.  To sum it up, we had a nice, but crazy driver, no seat belts, two children to hold on to, and roads full of drivers who drove wherever they felt so inclined.   A counter to the dangerous side of our journey was the fascinating slice of rural China we were able to observe.  Individuals pulling cart loads of bricks were not uncommon sites.   It was a wild, dangerous, but also rewarding ride that we all agreed we wouldn't really want to repeat.

 

After reaching Luoyang much later than anticipated, we checked into the Luoyang Grand Hotel.  Numerous complications with room assignments and availabilities brought us to the brink of going to another hotel.   Finally we were given two rooms on what had been the closed 17^th floor.  A whole floor to ourselves turned out quite nice.  The rooms are fine but the bathrooms have even more mold issues than our last hotel.

 

This afternoon our guide took us to another government office to meet with a notary.  The paperwork will be completed and returned to us on Thursday, along with Z's passport, thus making the adoption official.   After the notary, we went shopping in a local supermarket.  It was here that we discovered that we could buy a top of the line motor scooter, complete with numerous accessories, for about $300.   If we wanted to go for a low end model, the price was about $150.  Wow, what a deal.  I wonder about shipping costs…….   Jud???  Back to the hotel we returned for a quick dinner.  We bought a small, decorated cake and proceeded to celebrate Z's happy forever family day.

Forever Family

Day 5:  Forever family day! What a sweet little boy Z is.  He was brought to us from his orphanage in Luoyang by one caregiver and one office worker.   We were told that he was brought to the orphanage by his foster mother about a week ago.  He was very cautious as we were each introduced to him, and held onto his caregivers' hand tightly.   Y offered him a lollipop and he slowly warmed up from there on out.  We had a chance to ask many questions of his caregiver, which proved a great opportunity.   She obviously cared a great deal about him, having been there when he first arrived.

 

After a few formalities, we were taken to a photo shop for an adoption certificate family photo – mom, dad and Z.   Z, quite willingly let his mama carry him the whole time.  While walking, he became rather chatty.  Exactly what was said will forever remain a mystery, given our weak grasp of Mandarin.   While waiting for Celine to run the photo up to the office we discovered that Z was thirsty.  He drank quite a bit of water and a whole juice box.   He struggled using the straw, but was persistent in trying and eventually figured it out with a bit of help (and light squeezing).  I'm sure we looked a bit silly as we tried to show him how to suck on a straw in the lobby of this building.   We later discovered that Z could not use a straw due to a small fistula (opening) in his palate, which prevented effective sucking action.  We then went back to our hotel and played with little cars on a plastic road course, which he seemed to enjoy quite a bit, and he really loved blowing bubbles with his Ba Ba.

 

Later in the afternoon we returned to the provincial Adoption Center to finalize the adoption, with Y last year this was a two-day process.   Z was very talkative on the way there but as we entered the building he became noticeably apprehensive.  Of course we forgot our gifts and Ba Ba had to run back to the hotel while Z gave his hand stamp of agreement to the adoption and I gave my thumb prints.    Ba Ba added his and the adoption was final.  The Civil Affairs officer presented us with Z's adoption certificate.   Y and S stayed back at the hotel and watched Winnie the Pooch's X-mass, Y's choice.  It was still on when we got back and Z recognized the Pooh and was confused as to why he couldn't understand it so S change the language to mandarin and we had one happy pooh loving boy.

 

Dinner with our guide and a splash in the pool (which he loved!) completed our day.

update - Everything the orphanage worker told us we found out later was not true - Z came to us from his foster family that morning -

Day 5 preview

A post, updating you all on this wonderful, eventful day, will follow soon.  It's been an absolutely amazing event for all of us.  For the moment, we have just posted pictures in the photos section of this blog.  We have also posted some video clips on our youtube account.  See the link below for youtube.

http://www.youtube.com/zmakes8

 

Day 4

Day 4:  Today began with a traditional Chinese meal served by our kind hostess.   It included dumplings, spicy sesame beans, watermelon, and onion/chive scrambled eggs.  We then went for a leisurely walk along a small lake for a bit of cultural exploration.   The stress increased a bit as we went shopping for our upcoming train ride in a local supermarket.  This was definitely a locals market.    Identifying foods from label pictures alone was a bit of an adventure.

We were picked up by two cabs and survived the adventurous ride to the train station.  Though we had a total of 12 items to transport, including 4 full suitcases, 3 carry-ons, two duffels full of donation stuff, one 2-year old and more, the three of us managed to get everything through an x-ray scanner, and ultimately onto the train.  Trust us, this was an extreme accomplishment.   The train turned out to be less than a year old, and one of the new electric bullet trains.  We smoked on down the tracks to Zhengzhou at over 210 km/hr (around 130 mph)!   The scenic trip was enjoyable and took about 5 hours or so, after which we were met by our guide, Celine, at the station.  We were taken to a very luxurious looking hotel, the "Sofitel Zhenghzou."   Walking into the entryway was quite impressive and grand.  However, upon closer inspection (we were wishing we had brought some Tilex with us), the hotel lacked basic cleanliness.   We had great take-out from a restaurant down the street, went swimming, and collapsed for the evening.  We are so excited about meeting Zi Gui tomorrow morning.

As I sit typing this post it is actually 9:30am Monday morning.   We leave in 15 minutes for a 5-minute walk to the government offices where we will receive Zi Gui.  Wow, off we go!

China 2007 - Day 3

Day 3:  Jet lag is still an issue for us.  We are so very tired most of the time.   We hope to be rested and invigorated by the time Monday rolls around and we get to meet Zi Gui for the first time.

Today we climbed a remote section of the Great Wall.  We had arranged for the same guide, Mr. Lei, that showed us around Beijing in 2006, to do so again.   He is so wonderful, knowledgeable, and courteous.  He took us to a remote, authentic, unrestored section of the Great Wall, known as Badaling.   There were very few people there, and it was terrific.  To get there, we drove by three of the most popular sections of the wall for tourists.   These areas were packed with people, as you can see in one of the pictures we stopped briefly to take.  The section we visited required an arduous climb, but was well worth it.   Y hitched a ride on her daddy's back for much of the way, but did great on her own as well.  The whole experience was amazing, just as before.   The Great Wall is truly GREAT!

After the climb we stopped by a local canteen for lunch.  We had more outstanding food than six could eat (our guide and driver joined us) and drinks, all for about $10.   After returning to our Hutang, we summoned up the energy to check out the popular Wangfujing Dajie (a very lively high end street mall).

Tomorrow the 5 ½ hour train ride to Zhengzhou should offer a bit of adventure as we travel with quite a few bags, including the orphanage donations of blankets and children's pharmaceuticals.

China Trip Days 1 & 2

Thursday:  We finally arrived in Beijing, China.  The start of the trip was a bit rocky.   Our flight was delayed 2 hours to fix the cabin cooling system.  After taking off, it was still a bit hot, but cooling slowly.   The captain said his cockpit thermometer was still showing 94 degrees.  Hmmm, we couldn't help but wonder how well the 747 was handling with sweaty hands at the helm.   Y settled in just fine and we endured, if not completely enjoyed the flight.  I mean 13 hours in a plane is still 13 hours in a plane.  Anyhow, after 2 lunches, 4 movies, and numerous drinks and snacks, we arrived at 4:30pm, Beijing time.  It was bright and sunny the whole way.  Somehow we misplaced a night.  Jetlag was beginning to sink in by the time we arrived at hotel for the evening.  We had a light dinner in the hotel and then called the kids on the laptop.   Our video call worked great on Skype.  It was really nice to see and talk with everyone, and discover that they were doing just fine.   We were exhausted and went right to bed following the call.

 

Friday:   We were up early and again had breakfast at the hotel.  We decided to walk to Tianamen Square- about ½ hour away.   It turned out just fine, though it was clear we were not in the "tourist" section of town.  Plenty of sites to see.  Plenty of people checking us out.   We walked around the square, bartered for a few items with the locals, and then walked into the Forbidden City.  We didn't have a lot of time to spend there before having to return to our hotel (an extremely hair raising cab ride) in order to check out and move to our next location, the Mao'er Hutong B&B on the north side of the Forbidden City.   The entrance to this Hutong is down a long narrow drive and is extremely non-descript, however once inside it turned out to be amazing.  Check out the photo's, it's hard to describe.   China of old, elegant, art pieces and silk everywhere, etc. Far more impressive and interesting than any hotel we've ever stayed at.  Everybody's napping as I write this.   In a bit we're off to shop at silk alley, find some dinner, and then we have arranged for a driver to pick us up and take us to see a Chinese Acrobats performance this evening.   Tomorrow is the Great Wall and the Summer Palace with our guide, Mr. Lei.