Monday, July 19, 2010

Day 5 - Gotcha!

Luoyang Day 5 (Monday) – Gotcha!

In short - an amazing day that couldn't have gotten much better. It did start a bit slow with Monsoon rains drenching Zhengzhou last night. Our window leaked badly so we ended up moving rooms this morning. Ultimately this turned out positively, in that our room view changed from the dirty side of a building 15' away to a beautiful courtyard garden, complete with a meandering lily pad pond, walkway and small bamboo forest.

We met the group at 9:30am (all 14 families) and boarded buses bound for a provincial government building about 20 minutes away. We arrived before any of the orphanage vehicles, which were late due to extensive flooding in and around the city. All of the families were in one modestly sized room (a bit small for so many families) when the children arrived. ZT arrived in a small van overflowing with children and adults. He willingly came right up to us and practically gave us a High-5 (well almost). He appeared as happy and well as could be expected after having to stay at the orphanage for two nights. In the bag they brought with him we received 4 cameras, but not New Day CD we had hoped for. I would venture to say that our meeting (reunion might be more accurate) was all we had prayed it would be. You should have seen the room - 14 families – hysterical screaming children, crying babies, a few calm ones and then there was ZG and ZT acting like best buds. Maureen had their matching backpacks ready to go filled with all sorts of things to do and they just went at it. ZT was very interactive and expressive = laughing hysterically at times. It was amazing. He really likes to be held and just seemed ready to be involved in whatever we wanted to do. After a couple of hours we boarded the bus back to the hotel and worked on lunch. Noodles, yogurt and bread were readily eaten by all. While Maureen took a trip to the bank and met with our guides to complete registration paperwork, Craig and Aura Lee took the boys to a wonderfully large indoor swim pool/recreation center in the hotel. We prepped the boys with floaties and went for a swim. The shallow end was 4 1/2 ' feet deep, so there was no children feet touching. As expected, it seemed pretty clear that ZT had never been swimming before. ZG just jumped in and played like a fish. ZT just began laughing hysterically as he watched ZG. Craig got right in with him and he was just all smiles. He never appeared fearful as learned the finer points of keeping water out of your mouth and nose. Eventually we had him paddling and kicking his way around the pool. Amazingly, at one point he climbed out, stood up, walked a few steps to where he had a clear path and just leapt in – came up with a sputter, smiling and laughing. He appeared cautious at times but ultimately showed no fear. Lake Michigan is going to be a blast for him when we return. Back in the hotel room the boys spent a good hour plus playing Lego's. Just like ZG he really likes to put things together and taking them apart. They are like two peas in a pod – we can't imagine we'll ever get any closer to knowing what it's like to have twins than this.

Off we went to dinner at a very small place down the street, and wouldn't you know it – absolutely fantastic food - a new local favorite is discovered.

Tomorrow we are on the bus at 9:00am – traveling to complete the registration process.

Sunday, July 18, 2010


Fwd: Day 5 Luoyang - Saying goodbye to ZiGui's foster family


Day 5 Luoyang - Saying goodbye to ZG's foster family

Luoyang Day 4 (Sunday)

Today we leave Luoyang and have to say goodbye to ZG's foster family. We went for a nice site seeing walk around town before being picked up by Mike. Surprisingly, as we walked through a huge neighborhood redevelopment project (huge tracts of land had been leveled for new construction), we came upon one of the largest billboard posters we have ever seen depicting the city of Chicago's skyline. It was kind of a home-sweet-home experience.

The visit to the foster family was emotional as expected and a wonderful experience for us all. The family brought out a few of ZG's favorite toys, which turned out to be a lot of fun for him and all of us. It was very hard to say goodbye.

The drive to Zhengzhou on the expressway was an adventure all its own – suffice it to say we survived as evidenced by this blog entry. Our hotel is next door to the one we stayed at almost three years ago and thus we feel like we are on familiar turf. Alas, much to our disappointment, our favorite local "hole-in-the-wall" restaurant is gone – converted into a hair salon. We shall have to find a new favorite. We are very excited about receiving ZT tomorrow – tempered by the sad knowledge that he has to spend a second night at the orphanage. We pray they treat him well.

Saturday, July 17, 2010

Louyang Day 3

Luoyang Day 3 (Saturday)

Today began with a Chinese breakfast (the beef floss in the rice congee was especially good) – followed by some shopping nearby. We then left for the big event of the day and had an amazing lunch at a local spot with Zigui and his foster family. Lot's of great food to eat, and with Mike to translate, communication went well. We traded many stories and had long held questions answered. ZG had a rather difficult time dealing with all of his emotions but eventually gave his foster mother a big hug (see picture) and warmed up to the whole event. We left lunch with a plan to stop by for one last goodbye to ZG's foster family tomorrow. We finished the day with more shopping and dinner at our new favorite "Dumpling" spot. Tomorrow we are off to Zhengzhou to meet up with all of the other families in our group and prepare for our "gotcha" day on Monday.

Friday, July 16, 2010